Isle of Wight singer-songwriter Ben Stubbs is set to release a new charity single, carrying an essential message: “It’s ok to not be ok”.
Mental health struggles touch almost everyone, whether through personal battles or those of loved ones. Yet, men’s mental health remains shrouded in stigma, with too many stories ending in tragedy.
Ben believes that open conversations, support, and breaking down societal barriers can save lives. His latest song, We Are Men, aims to challenge stereotypes and encourage men to share their burdens rather than suffer in silence.
A follow-up to international success
This new release follows Light of My Life, Ben’s internationally recognised debut album. That record saw him lay bare his own struggles, narrating his journey through mental illness to a place of stillness.
Now, We Are Men builds on that deeply personal storytelling, using music as a means to empower others. “Just think about how many lives we could save,” Ben explains, highlighting the song’s urgent call to action.
A team of talented musicians
Ben recorded We Are Men late last year at Empire Sound in Newport, Isle of Wight. The production was handled by Rob and Jim Homes, with a team of accomplished musicians bringing the track to life.
The recording features multi-instrumentalist Tommy Burnhams, seasoned pro Steve Hodge on keys and synth pads, and Rupert Brown on drums. Rupert’s extensive career includes working with artists such as Cher, Annie Lennox and the Lighthouse Family.
Supporting local mental health initiatives
We Are Men will be available on all streaming platforms from 28th February, coinciding with World Music Therapy Day. Fans can also download the track via Bandcamp on a “name your price” basis.
All proceeds will go to Men Only IOW, a local men’s mental health charity. Though the funds will directly support those on the Isle of Wight, Ben hopes the message will resonate far beyond. He wants to spark a wider conversation about how society conditions men to suppress their emotions.
By shining a light on these issues, We Are Men aims to make a difference—one voice at a time.
