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Worrying number of children in the south east hospitalised for self-harm

Hayley shares this latest news from the NSPCC. OnTheWight did request details specific to the Isle of Wight but the NSPCC have made the decision to not share the breakdown.

The stats below relate to children and young people in Kent, Medway, Sussex, Surrey and Hampshire which includes the Isle of Wight, Portsmouth and Southampton. Ed


New NSPCC research reveals that 3,187 children and young people in the south east received hospital treatment for self-harm last year. Nationally, nearly 19,000(1) children and young people in England and Wales were treated.

Self-harm can take lots of physical forms, including cutting, burning, bruising, scratching, poisoning and overdosing.

The worrying figures, obtained by the NSPCC after a Freedom of Information Request (FOI) to NHS Trusts and Health Boards, highlight how a growing number of hospital beds are being filled by children who have taken violent and drastic steps to alleviate their emotional pain and suffering.

‘Call for Help’ Christmas campaign
They also reinforce the importance of the charity’s ‘Call for Help’ Christmas campaign, which is raising vital funds for services like Childline so every young person who gets in contact via the phone or online receives the support and advice they may desperately need.

Currently the free and confidential helpline for young people can only deal with three in every four of those that reach out for help.

The ‘Call for Help’ campaign invites people to text GIFT to donate £4 on 60155.

The pressures on teenagers
Teenagers aged 13 to 17 are most likely to end up hospitalised for acts of self-harm that include cutting their bodies, overdosing on pills or burning themselves; highlighting the crisis many young people are facing as they struggle to cope with the pressures of modern day life.

Common pressures include:

  • Bullying
  • Family relationship problems
  • Being under too much pressure to do well at school
  • Being emotionally abused

The new figures are backed up by Childline which delivered 12,175 counselling sessions about self-harm in England, 2,720 of which were handled by the helpline’s base in London2.

Personal stories
One 14-year-old boy who contacted Childline said:

“Sometimes I get flashbacks from what happened when I was younger and I cope with the horrible memories by cutting myself – it helps me release the pain from within. School helped take my mind off things but now that the holidays are here I’m struggling.

“My parents always seem to be too busy for me and I don’t want to tell my friends what happened. I feel so miserable and lonely – can you please help?”

And a 14-year-old girl told counsellors:

“Recently I’ve lost some people that were really close to me. When I started to self-harm it seemed to mask the emotional pain I was feeling, even if it only helped for a little while.

“When I get the urge to cut, I can’t seem to stop it until it’s done; otherwise I get really upset and angry. A couple of times I’ve gone too far and ended up in hospital.”

Advice for parents and carers
The NSPCC has published advice for those that suspect a child or young person is or considering self-harming:

  • Listen and show empathy and understanding
  • Talk it over to try and discover their self-harm triggers
  • Build their confidence and show that they can trust you
  • Help them find new ways to cope

Peter Wanless, Chief Executive of the NSPCC, said:

“A frightening number of children and teenagers are being driven to self-harm as a way of dealing with unresolved feelings, tensions and distress in their lives.

“Knowing hospital beds are full of young people crying out for help should be a real wake up call to all those that care for the wellbeing of the younger generation. It is vital we confront the fact that an increasing number are struggling to deal with the pressures and demands of modern-day life, to such an extent they are inflicting terrible damage upon themselves.

“A key step in this process is ensuring every child and teenager who contacts Childline receives the advice and support they may desperately need, which is why it is so important that people get behind our ‘Call for Help’ campaign.”

Self-harming at epidemic level
Childline President, Dame Esther Rantzen added:

“It is deeply disturbing that so many children and young people are ending up in hospital because they are injuring themselves so seriously. Self-harming is at epidemic level among young people, at Childline we hear from them every day.

“It has become one of the most common problems young people bring to us, and I know from our counsellors that these are some of the most painful stories we hear. Often the young people feel too ashamed and fearful to seek help from those around them, until they harm themselves so badly they have to be rushed to hospital.

“So they need to remember that Childline is here for them and that it really makes a difference to talk to our counsellors who care about you and want to support you.”

Call Childline
Children and young people can contact Childline for free, confidential support and advice, 24 hours a day on 0800 1111 or on the Website.

NSPCC’s definition of the South East includes Kent, Medway, Sussex, Surrey and Hampshire which includes the Isle of Wight, Portsmouth and Southampton.

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